You will get upset and feel severe injury when you are cheated or break the relationship with you by your best friend or your boyfriend. You consider them as your loyalist and they are the most trusted people by you. It is not possible to tolerate the unexpected things from the people from whom where we have enormous faith. If you get disappoint from your fond boyfriend or from your close friend, you become mad and go to the extreme of keeping vengeance and try to retaliate them. This will make the situation more worsen and invite more unwanted troubles to you. How to control the fire in your mind and cool? Here little number of things is given to shrink your projected vein and pacify you to the direction of handling the situation wisely.
1. Allow her to keep him, if she hijacks your man. This is the wonderful tit for tat. She tried to get your boyfriend and succeed in that with the support and cooperation from him. If he resisted, she might failed in her try. He was also ready to move the sides and deserted you. So his credibility had gone and he may redo the same to his new lover sooner or later. If that happen she will taste the bitterness of lost the lover to another girl.
2. Be grateful to the God to stage such an incident through which you find the true color of your lover. If a girl is snatching the lover from other girl and convert to her belongings, she will not be your friend and ex boyfriend do not deserve to the position you kept him before. You treat your heart by saying that he migrated to other flower like a bee now itself and will be in greater pain if this happen after you marry him or after give birth to a child through him. So take this as a lucky thing and thankful to Jesus Christ to avert the challenge with more magnitude.
3. Add this incident as a page in to your lessons learnt book. You have to start analysis and find answer for the questions like; What went wrong? What forced your ex boyfriend to look for another girl? Is there any particular feature in his new partner and attracted him? Do I have such special magnetic features with me?
At the end of the self examination, you find clues and vital factors which make your future relationship keep in unbreakable state. Who knows, it may do the magic of reunion with your ex boyfriend if you wish the same and chance come.
Thursday, January 7, 2010
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